I'm married and like too many of us the intimacy has gone. I am well groomed and have never had an STD. I have had a vasectomy. I am in very good health. I am well educated and funny, at least I think I'm funny. I am looking for FWB or NSA but that's not to say all I want is sex (though I wouldn't say no to that). I would like to find a part time lover. For the few hours we have together lets be lovers before we part. Then next time, let's fall in love again and again. I know I am just a young old man with only a dream, but I want to feel your breath on my face, and your body close to mine. Now I'm not talking about forever and I don't want to change your life but if there's a warm wind blowing the stars around, then I'd really love to see you tonight. UPDATE: My wife and I discussed our sexual situation. She said she has no interest in having sex with me or anyone else anymore and I should find someone else, basically.

My Ideal Person An Ideal person. Just someone who is open minded and open to new possibilities. Would just love to talk to someone. Someone real live and in person. What could it hurt. You never know what you may find if you don't at least take a look.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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