Us: We are a married couple who started as singles on Adult FriendFinder over nine years ago. We have been swinging the majority of that time and enjoy it very much. It's hard to try to hang out with vanilla friends after the lifestyle has provided so much fun for us. As a couple we do go play separately from time to time on our own. We are very open about this with each other and it works for us. It would not be for everyone...but we enjoy it. As a couple we are not looking to replace each other...replace our own sex life....Swinging to us is looking for other couples who understands that you MUST be Happy with YOURSELF and AND YOUR PARTNER. If you are, then WE would love to get to know you better and possibly swing together and introduce you to our group of friends. About Her : I have light brown hair, shoulder length, blue eyes, a size 18 - 42 D, BBW...and I have a zest for life and sex and love when other do too. I enjoy swinging as a couple and also enjoy going out one on one with single men in their 40's to 50's if my hubby has a date with a friend. I can laugh at myself and know that I'm not to be taken very serious. Life is too short for stress, I'm trying to learn to leave it where ever it needs to be left and make my home and life away from home stress free, drama free and a place where friends can come and enjoy an evening with others who know the importance of quality friendships and the value of friends with benefits. About Him: D is a gentleman in every way with a woman until she says, "Let's GO!!" Then he is ready and willing to make her the center attention for the time they are together. His look is all his own, very sexy silver fox with the most sexy hazel eyes that will melt a woman into a puddle. His package is about 7" and is long lasting. He's very oral in giving and receiving. LADIES: you will not be sorry in the bedroom. I've never been!! My Ideal Person: Her: I enjoy white men who look distinguished and have a quality about them that says, I know who I am and I like it." If you smell good, your breath is fresh and you have a clue about dressing. I'm sure I'm going to stop and take a look. Men who are mature (40-50's) is a plus for me. You must work in and out of the bedroom and show the manners your Mother taught you. Him: His ideal person is a more mature female with lots of curves and an adventurous attitude who loves sex and is very spontaneous. He gets turned on by woman who aren't afraid to let a man know what she wants.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
String Cheese Insident, MOE., Government Mule, Grateful
Dead, and many more

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Role Playing, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No..I like real people who know what they like. I don't
need that kind of fantasy.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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